StoriesOfLife

Hello Readers, I'm sorry if you guys wanted me to blog but i haven't in a while. Its just that I haven't been getting any ideas, I wanted some inspiration. That inspiration came to me when I had to give a TED talk in school. I was just thinking of something in the bus and then in school my teacher said,"You are giving a TED talk." Coincidentally I was thinking of a topic in the bus and I was able to write mt talk based on that. My topic was how everyone looks at the mistakes of others but overlooks the good. I think we should really give a chance to others see what they have to say because sometimes things are not what they look like. I wouldn't have know this without my friends, they told me about my weaknesses so that i could work on it and turn the page around, and honestly I am very thankful to them. The first thing we always notice in others is the bad qualities in them, we find every possible way to find an excuse for not hanging out with them, beca...

Hello readers, Let me start with telling you guys how awesome last week was. I went for camp from school and it was AWESOME!!! There were so many adventure and leadership activities. It was in Bangalore and i can guarantee that it was the best week in the whole of Feb. I so wish we didn't have to come back. Anyways, what I really wanted to share with you guys was how much I learnt there. I wouldn't have taken those few chances that I took there if it wasn't for my friends and my team, but moreover  I realised it was me as well. There were these few activities that i could've sat out due to skin allergy (which just saying is temporary guys). I was shocked when I didn't and my inner voice was like, "Come on girl just do it, you're not going to get such experiences everyday, its OK!" I found out a few qualities in me that I showed very less. The point I'm trying to make is that you're only gonna live life once so just have fun, listen to y...

Hello readers, OH! First off, happy valentines day to all my readers!!!😂 There is a lot of practice going on in my school for its annual day and yesterday I was so tired that me and a few friends went to the counsellors room and spent some time there. It was so fun, one of the best days ever. It was so relaxing and I had my friends with me. It felt so natural, like I've known them forever. We played and laughed so much that i wish we never had to leave. Its moments like these that you need to remember and its friends like these that you need to thank. I still am little confused as to what should i do cause there are a few friends that I love but with them its different. I don't know, life isn't as easy as it seems. One moment you think everything is figured out and the other you're wishing the ground just opens up and swallows you!(read this a lot in books). My point is, if you want to make life simpler then sometimes you just really really have to talk to some...

Hello readers, School has been going better than I expected, I am happy I am able to pay attention in classes and I have great friends. Have you had a proper, genuine talk with one of your favourite teachers? Well I have just a day or two back. I shared my feelings with her and I told her a few things about myself. Her answer was that I don't have to try and find who I am, the way I react in situations is what makes up my personality and that's exactly who I am. I've been thinking of it lately and she's right. I was having inner conflicts cause I wasn't happy with myself I was trying too hard "finding myself" rather than accepting myself. Yes I've always tried living up to peoples expectations and that isn't exactly fun or easy to handle because once you change even a bit, they go against you. They say you've changed. That's not even the worst part of it though, cause to be honest the worst part would be knowing that its true. Then it...

Hello readers, So if you read my last post then you probably know what this is all about. For those who are reading this without viewing any other posts, well this could be a summary to help understand. I was basically trying to tell my friend she was changing but was scared to do so. I kept thinking how I could tell her that I found someone else's company more fun. So yeah I was really worried how things would go down, but guess what!!! I told her today, finally, and it actually helped create an understanding between us. My prediction was right, she wasn't mad, she was happy I told her the truth. But of course she was sad at the same time. Just that sometimes you just have to do what you have to, and you never know, that might turn out to be the best. I'm happy we haven't stopped talking now and I'm happy we're still good friends. I think ill just stick to the "everything happens for a reason." My take on the incident would be that true friends a...

Hello readers, So far hostel has been fun, well except the morning sports part, my legs hurt a lot. Not complaining, I mean I love basketball but, just saying. Even school has been good, except one of the things. Have you guys ever had the feeling that one of your close friends is changing and there is nothing you can do about it? Have you thought of saying this to your friend but you just back off because you don't wanna hurt them to be up in arms with you? I really want to tell her, I know I have to, cause she has always been there for me and I cant just leave her now. I know what I want, but is it ok to feel guilty about it? why do I feel so guilty about it? Should I really have called her my best friend and now feel like I enjoy someone else's company better? Is it ok to feel that was all of a sudden? I don't know what to do, its like my heart says something but my brain says something else. I have so many questions, but no matter how many threads I join I end up t...