Regret But Realise
Hello Readers,
I've had a lot of people come up to me and say that they've done a few things that they regret, a lot, and wish they could take it all back. Why I'm writing something about it? Well, I thought some people could read this and maybe it will help them. We say stuff that we don't mean sometimes and we do things that we shouldn't have. Does that make us bad people though? I don't think so, I mean imagine yourself never doing something wrong, something you now regret. You probably wouldn't have known the right thing if you wouldn't have made that mistake. NO ONE, is that perfect.
It's probably something completely wrong you've done, but do you realise it was a mistake? If yes, be happy that you're strong enough to accept it. Do you feel guilty? Yeah, then well maybe you should just not repeat it. If you know that you won't repeat it, then stop blaming yourself for it, especially if it was non-intentional. If you don't forgive yourself for what you've done, you'll probably miss out on the best things in life because your'e too scared to make the same mistake again. But, if you really are sacred, its a good thing, cause your'e trying to make sure that it doesn't happen again, you know you don't want it to. That there is a sign in itself that things have changed.
Don't worry, take your time, but just don't keep blaming yourself, your'e not the only one who regrets things, someone might've done something worse than you and in fact that's ok. The reason you should be sorry is if you make excuses for doing it or try to deny it or take it easy. If its otherwise, and you're mad at yourself for it, you're all good, you should be fine, and you shouldn't let it stop you.
I've had a lot of people come up to me and say that they've done a few things that they regret, a lot, and wish they could take it all back. Why I'm writing something about it? Well, I thought some people could read this and maybe it will help them. We say stuff that we don't mean sometimes and we do things that we shouldn't have. Does that make us bad people though? I don't think so, I mean imagine yourself never doing something wrong, something you now regret. You probably wouldn't have known the right thing if you wouldn't have made that mistake. NO ONE, is that perfect.
It's probably something completely wrong you've done, but do you realise it was a mistake? If yes, be happy that you're strong enough to accept it. Do you feel guilty? Yeah, then well maybe you should just not repeat it. If you know that you won't repeat it, then stop blaming yourself for it, especially if it was non-intentional. If you don't forgive yourself for what you've done, you'll probably miss out on the best things in life because your'e too scared to make the same mistake again. But, if you really are sacred, its a good thing, cause your'e trying to make sure that it doesn't happen again, you know you don't want it to. That there is a sign in itself that things have changed.
Don't worry, take your time, but just don't keep blaming yourself, your'e not the only one who regrets things, someone might've done something worse than you and in fact that's ok. The reason you should be sorry is if you make excuses for doing it or try to deny it or take it easy. If its otherwise, and you're mad at yourself for it, you're all good, you should be fine, and you shouldn't let it stop you.
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