All is well that ends well
Hello readers,
So if you read my last post then you probably know what this is all about. For those who are reading this without viewing any other posts, well this could be a summary to help understand. I was basically trying to tell my friend she was changing but was scared to do so. I kept thinking how I could tell her that I found someone else's company more fun. So yeah I was really worried how things would go down, but guess what!!! I told her today, finally, and it actually helped create an understanding between us. My prediction was right, she wasn't mad, she was happy I told her the truth. But of course she was sad at the same time. Just that sometimes you just have to do what you have to, and you never know, that might turn out to be the best. I'm happy we haven't stopped talking now and I'm happy we're still good friends. I think ill just stick to the "everything happens for a reason."
My take on the incident would be that true friends are always very understanding and forgiving. This said you don't have to have just one true friend there can be many, but you have to make sure they are really "true" friends. You know this if they want what's best for you and what makes you happy. They always listen to you and think from your point of view as well. So if you can be a better friend yourself, be there for them, let them express themselves and feel happy being who they are around you. You should be their escape for when they feel down or too full of the world. Be the one friend that you always wanted yourself. Trust me there is nothing better than when you treat others the way you would like to be treated; You get what you give."
So if you read my last post then you probably know what this is all about. For those who are reading this without viewing any other posts, well this could be a summary to help understand. I was basically trying to tell my friend she was changing but was scared to do so. I kept thinking how I could tell her that I found someone else's company more fun. So yeah I was really worried how things would go down, but guess what!!! I told her today, finally, and it actually helped create an understanding between us. My prediction was right, she wasn't mad, she was happy I told her the truth. But of course she was sad at the same time. Just that sometimes you just have to do what you have to, and you never know, that might turn out to be the best. I'm happy we haven't stopped talking now and I'm happy we're still good friends. I think ill just stick to the "everything happens for a reason."
My take on the incident would be that true friends are always very understanding and forgiving. This said you don't have to have just one true friend there can be many, but you have to make sure they are really "true" friends. You know this if they want what's best for you and what makes you happy. They always listen to you and think from your point of view as well. So if you can be a better friend yourself, be there for them, let them express themselves and feel happy being who they are around you. You should be their escape for when they feel down or too full of the world. Be the one friend that you always wanted yourself. Trust me there is nothing better than when you treat others the way you would like to be treated; You get what you give."
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