YOU are your own person

Hello readers,

I have not posted anything in the past few days because as I mentioned in my earlier post, I had exams. There was already a lot going on so I did not have much time, and after that, we went out of town. I just got back today and thought of sharing my experience. So, well, the exams went well. There was that moment where you get the exam paper and just freeze, feeling like you've forgotten all you've learnt. I still made it through by taking long breaths and reminding myself that I have learnt these things and I can do it. After all, you could always use some motivation. 

Next comes the trip, where I got sick one of the days and missed sightseeing. Yeah, kind of a bummer but I enjoyed where I was. Instead of whining about not having something I guess it's always best to be happy about what you have. This applies to everyone under any circumstances. Believe me, you'll end up being happier and enjoy life. I myself haven't stopped whining and I know I probably won't. However I have definitely learnt taking things on a more positive outlook, my friends have taught me that as well. So credits to all of them, to be honest. 

What I have always hated the most is the thought that I am very boring and people might not want to be around me. I mean let's be honest, I do have lots of fears. But come on, everyone has fears, some more than the other, but that should not stop you from being who you are. True friends and people who genuinely care about you will see through that and help you, They will support you for who you are. If you have such people in your life be happy and take moment to thank them, and if they are the exact opposite, well don't let them stop you from being you. They don't define you, you are your own person, different from everyone else, embrace it, and if someone is willing to change, don't tell them not to. Cause someday you might be the one changing, which is not wrong. Just a part of life which should be accepted no matter how it is. You don't like the change tell them in a nice way but don't force it on them. Words really do matter a lot, and while a few might be sweet, the other might be really sour and could hurt a lot.

So is there someone you want to thank for accepting you the way you are? Is there someone you want to say sorry to for hurting their feeling? If yes, don't hesitate, say it. You never know, they might say it to you someday.